以前作的翻译,搬过来~

 

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首先是爱情使你忘记时间，
然后是时间让你忘记爱情。
At first , love makes you forget time.
Afterwards , time makes you forget love.

一个承诺在最需要的时候没有兑现，
那就是出卖，以后再兑现，已经没什么意思了。
A promise , that isn't fulfilled when it's hungrily demanded , is a betrayal.
To fulfill it later is a senseless action.

男人通常不喜欢吵架，也不主动吵架。
但他们擅长令女人忍无可忍，找他们吵架。
Usually , men neither like quarreling nor quarrel actively.
But they are good at getting women out of balance to make cat fight with them.

爱情不是愚公移山，也不是铁杵磨成针。
在表态之后，得不到回应，
在明知不可为的时候放弃，
是最优雅的了。
Love is neither moving a hill like Master Yu nor grinding a steel bar to a needle.
It's the most elegant to quit while getting no answer after the unbosoming.

我从来不相信“天涯若比邻”，
我只见过比邻若天涯的男女。
I never believe that , Faraway is a place nearby.
I just ever saw nearby man and woman , who are truly faraway from each other.

有时候，我们愿意原谅一个人，并不是我们真的愿意原谅他，
而是我们不愿意失去他、不想失去他，唯有假装原谅他！
Sometimes, when we're forgiving someone, we're not really to forgive him.
We pretend to forgive him just because we're not willing to lose him.

不管你爱过多少人，不管你爱的多么痛苦或快乐。
最后，你不是学会了怎样去恋爱，而是学会了怎样去爱自己
Despite how many people you loved, despite how painful or happy  your love is,
at last, what you learnt is not about how to love but how to take care of yourself.

世上并没有未完的故事，只有未死的心！
There's no endless story but unperishing thought.

你并不是想知道他过得怎样，
你只是想听到没有你之后，他日子过得并不好
You're not wondering how he lives now.
You just want to hear that he was unhappy without you.

他说：“你会找到一个比我好的人。”
你微笑说：“但我不会再对人这么好了。”
"You'll meet someone better than I am." She says.
"But won't be closer." You smile.

人,也许只分成两种：
你想拥抱的,你不想拥抱的。
Perhaps, there're just two kinds of people,
One whom you want to embrace and the other whom you don't want to embrace.

我宁愿高傲地发霉,
也不要委屈地恋爱。
I would like to be a proud fusty bach,
rather than a resigned lover.

被自己所爱的人宠坏,是最幸福的一种坏。
Badly doted by the one you love, is the extreme bad happiness.

所谓得体，就是有许多话不必说尽，有许多事不必做尽。
Propriety, is to speak not all what you want to speak, to do not all what you want to do.

失望是无可避免的，但大部分的失望，都是因为高估了自己。
Disapponiting is unavoidable.
But mostly it has roots in self-overestimation.

爱情不是在泥土里开出的花朵，
而是泥土里的肥料，最后开出的那朵花，是你的人生。
Love is not the flower erupting from the earth, but the fertilizer in the earth.
Eventually the flower blooms. It's your pilgrimage.

岁月会让你知道，一辈子的心愿，真的只是一个心愿。
Time makes you know, the aspiration of your life, is really just an aspiration.

曾经有机会目睹他最软弱或最糟糕的时刻，
你仍然能够微笑接受他的不完美，
并且和他共同拥有这个秘密，这一段爱情，才能够长久一些。
You ever witnessed his most milk-toast or terrible time.
And you still accepted his imperfection with smile, shared the secret with him.
Your love will live ever longer.

不要让已经永远没有可能回来的人成为你的负担。
Do not let someone who can't come back forever be your burden.

世上最无法掩饰的，
是你不爱一个人的时候的那种眼神……
The most unhidable thing in the world is,
the look on your face while you're facing someone you don't love...

你遇上一个人，你爱他多一点，
那么，你始终会失去他。
然后，你遇上另一个，他爱你多一点，
那么，你早晚会离开他。
直到一天，你遇到一个人，你们彼此相爱。
You meet someone and you love him more than he loves you.
Finally, you'll lose him.
Then, you meet another and he loves you more than you love him.
Eventually, you'll leave him.
Till one day, you meet the one. You love each other.

有一些爱情，是注定没法走到终点的。
一段爱情，如果只有过去的回忆，而没有现在的温暖和将来的快乐，
那么，我们为什么还要互相折磨呢？
我不介意痛苦，但我起码应该得到与痛苦一样多的快乐。
Some love stories, destine to have no end.
If a love story is just memory of past, but no warmness of now, no happiness of future,
then, why we're still agonizing each other?
Never mind about the pain. But at least I shall have the same demand of joy as pain.