为什么心中总是充斥着一种挫折感？

虽说挫折可以磨练人，但成长的过程总是这般的苦感吗？

也许我缺少的只是信念吧，此刻彷如苍蝇一般，想冲向窗外的斑斓的世界，却总被玻璃弹回。

筑起这隔膜的也许正是我自己，由过去记忆累积而成的自己，也只能局限于此吧。

So far, I can not know better about the truth of love.
At the beginning, I thought everything about that, comes from emotion, stops at propriety. It should be natural. There's no reluctance but devotion.
Maybe those thoughts are kinda perfectionism. After all, we're living in a real society, a material society. We all have to respect the realistic or would be knocked out by life.
But, allow me to have my own dream in my sleep.
It's really not your business at all that I love you.

 

 

以前作的翻译,搬过来~

 

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首先是爱情使你忘记时间，
然后是时间让你忘记爱情。
At first , love makes you forget time.
Afterwards , time makes you forget love.

一个承诺在最需要的时候没有兑现，
那就是出卖，以后再兑现，已经没什么意思了。
A promise , that isn't fulfilled when it's hungrily demanded , is a betrayal.
To fulfill it later is a senseless action.

男人通常不喜欢吵架，也不主动吵架。
但他们擅长令女人忍无可忍，找他们吵架。
Usually , men neither like quarreling nor quarrel actively.
But they are good at getting women out of balance to make cat fight with them.

爱情不是愚公移山，也不是铁杵磨成针。
在表态之后，得不到回应，
在明知不可为的时候放弃，
是最优雅的了。
Love is neither moving a hill like Master Yu nor grinding a steel bar to a needle.
It's the most elegant to quit while getting no answer after the unbosoming.

我从来不相信“天涯若比邻”，
我只见过比邻若天涯的男女。
I never believe that , Faraway is a place nearby.
I just ever saw nearby man and woman , who are truly faraway from each other.

有时候，我们愿意原谅一个人，并不是我们真的愿意原谅他，
而是我们不愿意失去他、不想失去他，唯有假装原谅他！
Sometimes, when we're forgiving someone, we're not really to forgive him.
We pretend to forgive him just because we're not willing to lose him.

不管你爱过多少人，不管你爱的多么痛苦或快乐。
最后，你不是学会了怎样去恋爱，而是学会了怎样去爱自己
Despite how many people you loved, despite how painful or happy  your love is,
at last, what you learnt is not about how to love but how to take care of yourself.

世上并没有未完的故事，只有未死的心！
There's no endless story but unperishing thought.

你并不是想知道他过得怎样，
你只是想听到没有你之后，他日子过得并不好
You're not wondering how he lives now.
You just want to hear that he was unhappy without you.

他说：“你会找到一个比我好的人。”
你微笑说：“但我不会再对人这么好了。”
"You'll meet someone better than I am." She says.
"But won't be closer." You smile.

人,也许只分成两种：
你想拥抱的,你不想拥抱的。
Perhaps, there're just two kinds of people,
One whom you want to embrace and the other whom you don't want to embrace.

我宁愿高傲地发霉,
也不要委屈地恋爱。
I would like to be a proud fusty bach,
rather than a resigned lover.

被自己所爱的人宠坏,是最幸福的一种坏。
Badly doted by the one you love, is the extreme bad happiness.

所谓得体，就是有许多话不必说尽，有许多事不必做尽。
Propriety, is to speak not all what you want to speak, to do not all what you want to do.

失望是无可避免的，但大部分的失望，都是因为高估了自己。
Disapponiting is unavoidable.
But mostly it has roots in self-overestimation.

爱情不是在泥土里开出的花朵，
而是泥土里的肥料，最后开出的那朵花，是你的人生。
Love is not the flower erupting from the earth, but the fertilizer in the earth.
Eventually the flower blooms. It's your pilgrimage.

岁月会让你知道，一辈子的心愿，真的只是一个心愿。
Time makes you know, the aspiration of your life, is really just an aspiration.

曾经有机会目睹他最软弱或最糟糕的时刻，
你仍然能够微笑接受他的不完美，
并且和他共同拥有这个秘密，这一段爱情，才能够长久一些。
You ever witnessed his most milk-toast or terrible time.
And you still accepted his imperfection with smile, shared the secret with him.
Your love will live ever longer.

不要让已经永远没有可能回来的人成为你的负担。
Do not let someone who can't come back forever be your burden.

世上最无法掩饰的，
是你不爱一个人的时候的那种眼神……
The most unhidable thing in the world is,
the look on your face while you're facing someone you don't love...

你遇上一个人，你爱他多一点，
那么，你始终会失去他。
然后，你遇上另一个，他爱你多一点，
那么，你早晚会离开他。
直到一天，你遇到一个人，你们彼此相爱。
You meet someone and you love him more than he loves you.
Finally, you'll lose him.
Then, you meet another and he loves you more than you love him.
Eventually, you'll leave him.
Till one day, you meet the one. You love each other.

有一些爱情，是注定没法走到终点的。
一段爱情，如果只有过去的回忆，而没有现在的温暖和将来的快乐，
那么，我们为什么还要互相折磨呢？
我不介意痛苦，但我起码应该得到与痛苦一样多的快乐。
Some love stories, destine to have no end.
If a love story is just memory of past, but no warmness of now, no happiness of future,
then, why we're still agonizing each other?
Never mind about the pain. But at least I shall have the same demand of joy as pain.

很久没提笔写字了，果然电脑废了人一手好字啊~

将桌子上放的钢笔注满墨水，抽屉里翻了个信封，抄了首宋词。

言为心声，字如其人。练字即为树人，当习之不辍！

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今天把好友们的空间浏览了一遍，十田九荒……惨！

MSN有段时间的改来改去，失掉了多少用户……不少人转战QQ空间、sina博客，包括我。

 

不一定任何事都要问理由，也不是所有事都能给答案，静心，听从原力的指引。

友人发了个有趣的邮件，试着作了简译。
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WIFE VS. HUSBAND
A couple drove down a country road for several miles, not saying a word.
An earlier discussion had led to an argument and neither of them wanted to concede
their position. As they passed a barnyard of mules, goats, and pigs, the husband asked
sarcastically, 'Relatives of yours?'
'Yep,' the wife replied, 'in-laws.'

夫妻对决
一对夫妇驱车驶入乡间小路数里，一言不发。先前的一个讨论引发了争吵，双方互不相让。当他们经过一块有骡子、山羊和猪的谷场时，丈夫不无讥讽的问：“都是你的亲戚吗？”
“没错，”妻子毫不客气的回答，“我的姻亲。”

W O R D S
A husband read an article to his wife about how many words women use a day...
30,000 to a man's 15,000.
The wife replied, 'The reason has to be because we have to repeat everything to men...
The husband then turned to his wife and asked, 'What?'

词
一个丈夫给妻子读一篇关于女人在一天中说多少个词的文章，
30000个，远胜于男人的15000个词。
妻子回答道，“一定是因为对男的我们什么都得再说一遍……”
话音刚落，丈夫转过来问妻子：“什么？”

CREATION
A man said to his wife one day, 'I don't know how you can be so stupid and so
beautiful all at the same time.' The wife responded, 'Allow me to explain. God made
me beautiful so you would be attracted to me; God made me stupid so I would be
attracted to you!'

创造
一天有人对自己的妻子说：“我不知道你是如何能如此的漂亮而又如此的蠢笨？”
妻子回应：“容我解释，上帝把我做得漂亮因而能够吸引你；上帝把我做得蠢笨所以我会被你吸引！”

The Silent Treatment
A man and his wife were having some problems at home and were giving each other
the silent treatment. Suddenly, the man realized that the next day, he would need his
wife to wake him at 5:00 AM for an early morning business flight. Not wanting to be
the first to break the silence (and LOSE), he wrote on a piece of paper, 'Please wake
me at 5:00 AM.' He left it where he knew she would find it. The next morning, the man
woke up, only to discover it was 9:00 AM and he had missed his flight. Furious, he was
about to go and see why his wife hadn't wakened him, when he noticed a piece of
paper by the bed. The paper said, 'It is 5:00 AM. Wake up.'
Men are not equipped for these kinds of contests.

冷处理
丈夫和妻子之间发生了点点问题，他们相互做冷处理。突然，丈夫想起来，第二天他需要妻子５点钟叫他起床去赶飞机出差。他不想先打破沉默的局面（同时认输），就在一张纸上写道：请在早上５点钟叫醒我。他把纸放在自认为妻子会看到的地方。
第二天上午，丈夫醒了却发现已经是9点了，早错过了飞机。丈夫暴跳如雷，正当要去质问妻子为什么不叫醒他的时候，发现床边放着张纸，上面写：5点了，快起来。

Men are not equipped for these kinds of contests.
God may have created man before woman, but there is always a rough draft before
the masterpiece.

对于这些类型的竞赛，男人生而不是女人的对手……
上帝也许在创造女人之前创造了男人，然而在杰作问世之前总少不了先打个草稿。
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个人觉得最后一句最绝！！！